Planting the Key Spouse program: Lawson family leaves their mark

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  • By By Maj. Ashley Walker
  • 913th Airlift Group

Helping set the foundation for the Key Spouse program here at the 913th Airlift Group, the Lawson family reflects on nearly 20 years of involvement with the program across assignments.

Sharon Lawson believes “When it comes to helping, it is not about knowing all the answers, it is about knowing where to find the answers and ensuring the right resources are made available to our families and Airmen when they need them most.”

She was a part of the Key Spouse program at other bases when her spouse was active duty Air Force. Leaning on previous experience, she joined other spouses from the group to help build the program from the ground up.

The organization was in its early stages as it was reactivated in 2011 with an initial focus on training. By 2015, the group became classically associated with Air Mobility Command’s 19th Airlift Wing as a result of the Air Force Total Force Integration initiative.                       

“Once we learned of the switch to an operational combat mission, we knew there was a special need for the Key Spouse program,” said Sharon. “In 2016, I became the key spouse for the 327th Airlift Squadron and 913th Operational Support Squadron.”

Despite previous experience, she was cognizant of the unique challenges Reserve members face. Nearly 80 percent of the group are part-time, traditional reservists who do not live locally.  This geographical distance from the base could create a sense of isolation from the support and resources available to military members and their families. This barrier to support services and networks emphasizes the need and role of the Key Spouse program.

“It takes deliberate effort to reach out to the Reserve member’s spouse,” said Sharon. “Being a part of the Air Force family is a special bond and can create a social connection across distances. This connection may fill a need that may not exist in their local town.”

The network of Reserve spouses is a wealth of information, stemming from experience and shared challenges. The role of the Key Spouse is to help the newer spouses and their families navigate the resources available, connecting them with experienced spouses in the unit.

“The seasoned veterans know what to expect during deployments. We can help those families who’ve never deployed by lending a helping hand or sympathetic ear to their concerns,” Sharon stated. “I partnered up with the maintenance squadron’s key spouse during the deployment last year. We regularly contacted, not only the spouses, but family members of single members as well. We collected and created personalized care packages for all the missed holidays. Those gestures brought a sense of family.”

As the Lawsons prepare for their next duty assignment, they advocate for all families to find ways to assist and grow the Key Spouse program. If you have an idea or would like to join the program, you can email Shanna Holmes at

“The Key Spouse program does not happen with just one person, it is the network of people who work across the six different squadrons that make up the program. Anyone is welcome to participate and attend training to become a Key Spouse,” said Lt. Col. Scott Lawson, 913th Airlift Group chief of safety. “The more involvement, the tighter the Air Force family. Support from our families and the program is vital to the success of the 913th Airlift Group mission.”

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